How to Elope in Michigan Legally [2024 Update]

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Sep 1

Eloping is about creating an unforgettable experience that feels right to the two of you and your love. Whether that means a horse-drawn carriage ride through Mackinac Island, relaxing in Traverse City’s wine region, chasing waterfalls in the Upper Peninsula or ending the night under a sky full of stars - Michigan offers endless possibilities for an incredible elopement.

And the best part? You can make it as simple, adventurous, long, short or unique as your heart desires. But before you run off to say “I do” in your dream location, here’s everything you need to know about eloping in Michigan and making it legal.

Getting Your Marriage License

After you’ve picked the day and before anything else, you’ll need a marriage license. Here’s what you need to know

if you’re a Michigan resident, you’ll apply in the county where you live, but you can get married anywhere in the state.
if you’re from out of state, you’ll apply in the county where your ceremony will take place.

How to Apply for a Marriage License

Check your county clerk’s website for application details. Some counties allow you to start the process online, but you’ll need to pick up the license in person.
You’ll need valid IDs and a copy of both of your birth certificates.
There’s a 3-day waiting period, but some (if not all) counties allow you to waive it for an additional fee with “good cause”.
Your license is valid for 33 days from the date of application.
After your ceremony, your completed license must be returned within 10 days.

Some couples choose to take care of paperwork before or after their elopement to keep things stress free and truly intimate with just the two of them.

Who Can Officiate & Who’s Going to Witness

Michigan requires an ordained officiant and two witnesses to legally marry you, and you have a few options

Hire a professional officiant. (Depending on location, I have a list)
Have a close friend or family member get ordained online (Universal Life Church makes this super easy!)
We’re also ordained! If you truly want an intimate elopement without an extra person, we can officiate while capturing your day.

You’ll also need two witnesses over the age of 18 and cannot be the one who officiated. If you’re eloping just the two of you and us as your officiant, we can help arrange witnesses as well.

Where to Elope in Michigan

No matter your vibe, Michigan has a stunning place for your elopement.

Mackinac Island - Horse-drawn carriages, historic charm and fairytale vibes
Traverse City - Rolling vineyards, sandy beaches, sail boats and golden sunsets
Upper Peninsula - Rugged cliffs, wild trails, waterfalls, and endless adventure
Detroit, Lansing, Grand Rapids - urban elegance, architectural charm & vibrant opportunities
National or State Forests - secluded trails, epic overlooks and stargazing opportunities

Do You Need a Permit?

This answer to this is going to vary place to place - some may require reservations and a fee, some may require a pre-approved permit where others will just tell you to show up or possibly have restrictions on times/days it’s available.

Michigan State Parks & National Forests/Lakeshores require a permit, which involves an application and small fee.
Local Parks & Beaches - these vary - some have no process, others require a fee and some just need approval and permission.
Private Venues & Airbnb Rentals may have rules about ceremonies, so always check ahead of time (NOTE: I’ve seen some Airbnbs allow elopements with just the couple and witnesses when asked.)

Something to also keep in mind, especially for state/national parks, natural areas, etc. they may have limits on group sizes or prohibit certain decorations, real florals or amplified sounds.

Not sure where to start? Let’s talk! We can help with scouting locations, checking permit requirements, and making sure your dream spot is good to go when the day gets here!

Legally Changing Your Name After Your Ceremony

If you plan you change your name after marriage, here’s what you need to do in Michigan:

1. Social Security Office

Take your certified marriage license to the Social Security Office nearest you
They will process the change, provide you with a confirmation letter and mail you your new social security card within a week-ish or so.

2. Secretary of State (Driver’s License or State ID Update)

Once you have your letter from Social Security, visit the Secretary of State to update your driver’s license or state ID

3. Passport: see the official government website as the situation, amount of time, etc. varies the answer. However, if you are planning to travel and need your passport immediately after you say “I do”, it’s highly recommended you return from you travels to change your name

4. Other Documents + Accounts you’ll want to update

Bank accounts
Insurance policies
Work & payroll records
Dr offices, utility companies, etc.

Most places will require a copy of your marriage license as proof, so it’s a good idea to make copies and keep the original safely put away.

How I Can Help

As an elopement photographer who thrives on adventure and stories that set our souls on fire, I do more than just capture your day - I help bring your vision to life.

Location Scouting - whether you’re dreaming of waterfalls, car garages, dark skies, wine country or lush forests, I can help you find the perfect spot
Timeline Planning - making sure your day flows smoothly while leaving time for you to soak it all in.
Officiant + Witness Assistance - whether we need to find you some or. you want us to do so, we can help there too.
Vendor Recommendations - from florists to hair & make-up artists and our favorite local eats. I can connect you with amazing local vendors and places

If you’re feeling overwhelmed or just want someone to bounce ideas off, I’ve got you. Take a deep breath and let’s make this easy, fun and everything you’ve been dreaming of.

Eloping in Michigan Legally Checklist

Real quick, let’s go over it in a quick easy list:

Marriage license
Officiant
Two witnesses
A location for your ceremony

Optional

Photographer and/or Videographer
Flowers
Hair & Make-up
Dinner reservations/plans
Accommodations if traveling

Ready to Plan Your Michigan Elopement

Eloping should be about the two of you- your love, your story and your adventure. If Michigan is calling your name and tugging at the strings to your soul, I’d love to help you make it happen. Whether you need location guidance, legal details or just want someone to show up and document your day in the most natural, raw and beautiful way - I’m here for it. Check out our Adventure Elopement Collections or Contact Us to start planning the most epic adventure!

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